BLOG SESSION
October 5th, 2017
"It's about Love & Kindness"
Welcome Blog Readers, Followers & Visitors ~ We're back for a Blog Session for your evening reading pleasure.
Today's Blog session is about love & kindness. Is it hard for you to be kind to others? Do you find it difficult to truly love people, especially the people closest to you? Do you even know what love is? Do you find it to be a problem for you to be kind to strangers by just saying "hello" or "Good Morning"? Do you know what it means to be kind?
If you've answered yes to the above questions, then the next question for you is: Have you been deeply hurt before?
Here's another serious question for you: Are you anti-social?
If so, why?
Love is an intense feeling of deep affection. Everyone has a different meaning associated with what "Love" is to them. When it comes to romantic relationships, I'm sure you've heard someone say at one point in your life or another, "I loved him or her, but I was not 'in love' with him or her". What exactly does that mean? Does that mean you love the person like a 'friend', a 'brother/sister', an 'associate', a 'family member'? Just what does that statement really mean? Only the person making the statement really knows. It's like two people who get married, and they are immediately seen in the eyes of others as being "in love" with one another, and everyone assumes that they "love" one another. But did they really love one another if they get a divorce? Were they really 'in love" with each other if they seek to divorce one another? Or was the marriage simply a fake love story?
People's feelings are all different. We may say, "I love you", but what does that really mean? Does that mean that you care about the person's well being? Does that mean that you love the person's personality? Does that mean that you love the person's mind? Does that mean that you find the person to be entertaining? Does that mean that you love the person's bank account?
Here's the deal . . . Who do you love?
To be "kind" to others is in line with the attribute of "kindness". Kindness is the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate.
It does not take a lot to be kind. Are you kind to others?
And, just for the record, "Hurting people tend to hurt other people." Maybe not intentionally, but they do so because of the pain that they carry from their hurts in life.
People who are mean to others, and/or bully others are usually people who have had others in their life who were mean to them and/or bullied them.
People who do not feel good about themselves have their own personal reasons why. People who are insecure and/or lack confidence usually do not step out in life like they should.
For this evening, please pull out your Journal and jot down notes from our Blog Session. Then, take a moment to pull out your Diary and write in your own words about our topic for today. From your heart, answer the questions from our Blog Session, and be honest about your feelings and emotions.
See what you uncover about yourself this evening . . .
If you've answered yes to the above questions, then the next question for you is: Have you been deeply hurt before?
If so, why?
Love is an intense feeling of deep affection. Everyone has a different meaning associated with what "Love" is to them. When it comes to romantic relationships, I'm sure you've heard someone say at one point in your life or another, "I loved him or her, but I was not 'in love' with him or her". What exactly does that mean? Does that mean you love the person like a 'friend', a 'brother/sister', an 'associate', a 'family member'? Just what does that statement really mean? Only the person making the statement really knows. It's like two people who get married, and they are immediately seen in the eyes of others as being "in love" with one another, and everyone assumes that they "love" one another. But did they really love one another if they get a divorce? Were they really 'in love" with each other if they seek to divorce one another? Or was the marriage simply a fake love story?
People's feelings are all different. We may say, "I love you", but what does that really mean? Does that mean that you care about the person's well being? Does that mean that you love the person's personality? Does that mean that you love the person's mind? Does that mean that you find the person to be entertaining? Does that mean that you love the person's bank account?
Here's the deal . . . Who do you love?
It does not take a lot to be kind. Are you kind to others?
And, just for the record, "Hurting people tend to hurt other people." Maybe not intentionally, but they do so because of the pain that they carry from their hurts in life.
People who are mean to others, and/or bully others are usually people who have had others in their life who were mean to them and/or bullied them.
People who do not feel good about themselves have their own personal reasons why. People who are insecure and/or lack confidence usually do not step out in life like they should.
Journal Notes
For this evening, please pull out your Journal and jot down notes from our Blog Session. Then, take a moment to pull out your Diary and write in your own words about our topic for today. From your heart, answer the questions from our Blog Session, and be honest about your feelings and emotions.
See what you uncover about yourself this evening . . .
Remember moments in your life when someone showed "kindness" toward you. Write about it in your Diary.
Have a blessed evening, and until our next Blog Session ~
Peace, Love & Light
By René Allen
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