René Allen ~ Author: Intuitive Empaths

BLOG SESSION ~ JUNE 2017

Good Afternoon Blog Followers, Readers & Visitors!

We are back with another great Blog Session about Empaths & Intuitive Empaths. In our last Blog Session, we were discussing the nature of healing Empaths and Highly Sensitive People (HSPs). We also discussed the traits of an Intuitive Empath.

Since our last Blog Session captured a lot of attention and interest, today we are going to go a little further into the topic of Intuitive Empaths. But before we do, we're going to do a quick overview about Empaths in general for the purposes of bringing new followers and readers of this Blog up to speed on what we are talking about.

You'll need to get your Journals out to check your notes to see if you have all of the information that I am about to share with you. If you have a new Journal, please label it "Empath Journal". If you don't have your Journal handy, a Notebook or index cards will do fine . . .

Your Journal will serve you well for many reasons. Not only will you be able to collect and take notes about the subject we are discussing, you'll also be able to chart important information about yourself ~ especially if you think that you may be an Empath or that someone close to you is an Empath. With that being said, lets do an overview and turn our attention to what an Empath is exactly . . .

An Empath is a person who can psychically tune in to the emotional experience of a person, place or animal. In the paranormal and in some works of science fiction and fantasy, highly developed empathy is a psychic ability used mainly to sense the emotions of others. Empaths are often highly aware of the health and state of mind of their loved ones, no matter how physically near or far away the individuals may be. It can be challenging for empaths to function healthily in society if they are unaware that they have this sensitivity and often opt to be alone. Not knowing that they are an Empath, what they feel can be very confusing to them.

Most empaths are often in the dark about their innate gifts but the more developed ones are sometimes called in by the police to help track a murderous pedophile or other heinous criminal because they are able to take on the tortured emotions of the assailant. Utilizing Clairempathy, a type of telepathy to sense or feel within one's self, the attitude, emotion or ailment of another person or entity.

Empaths who are developed in their gift are sensitive to the visible as well as the invisible and pick up on body language, tone of voice, body movements, the words people choose when they speak, the words they avoid, the logic they use; and the hidden things that only an empath can sense inside another person. It is not uncommon for an empath to "freak out" for no apparent reason, only to discover later that a friend or family member went through some sort of trauma at that exact moment. So essentially an empath is someone whose feeling sensory is extraordinarily heightened, meaning they receive the majority of their psychic input from what they feel.

Since Empaths are being assaulted constantly by emotions which do not originate internally from themselves, they can't figure out why they feel the way that they do, and therefore can't address the core issues. Since empathy isn't something you can really ditch it's sometimes difficult to sort out what the Empath truly feels in a given situation or what they are taking on from someone else. This can prove to be very confusing!

We're talking about emotions that create powers that have been known to be God like in nature (which gets into the area of the Prophetic giftings - which we will discuss in a later Blog Session).

Emotional empaths are so sensitive that they can absorb the negative emotions of others in their body, and actually take it on. So when an empath is around somebody who is anxious, they can actually absorb that energy into their body, when it isn't even their own anxiety. Thus they may become anxious, and if they are not aware, they will not know where the anxiousness is coming from, and may believe it is their own anxiousness, when it is not, and once removed from the presence of the person who is really anxious, the anxiousness will cease from them.

If the Emotional Empath is more aware of what is happening with them, they will be able to handle the matter in a more effective way. Thereby honing in on the individual from which the anxiousness is coming from for example. They may then be able to talk with them and find out what is going on within the person and help them to handle their anxiousness by calming them down, or talking about the actual source of why the person feels so anxious.

Please make a note in your Journal that Empaths are born, and they’re born unskilled and are generally very understanding of others and their positions, and often times will ask questions rather than make snap judgments, or intuitively seem to 'know' there is more to a story than what meets the eye. Empaths are sensitive to TV, videos, movies, news and broadcasts. Violence or emotional dramas depicting shocking scenes of physical or emotional pain inflicted on adults, children or animals can bring an empath easily to tears.

Empaths are people who don’t “read” the future, or predict it they “read” people, and their energy although sometimes it depends on the person being read, too. Empaths are often problem solvers, thinkers, and they tend to study many things. As far as empaths are concerned, where a problem is, so too is the answer.

Empaths are the psychic sponges of the world, soaking up all the psychic and emotional static that other people give off. Being an Empath is one of the most common and most challenging of all the psychic gifts. So it is not uncommon for you to hear from Empaths that their gift can be to them both a blessing ... and a curse!

We have a lot more exciting information to cover,

so right now we'll take a brief coffee break

and come back to resume our Blog Session!

Coffee Break!

~ See you back here shortly ~

Peace, Love & Light,

René

Let's talk about Highly Sensitive People

Hi everyone ~ We're back to talk more about Empaths and Highly Sensitive People (HSPs). I hope you have your Journals ready to take notes, because I'm about to share a lot of information that you will find very enlightening.

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First, I'd like to share a little about the Header on this Blog page which is about the "Sensitive" Film. The objective of the Film is to raise awareness about the nature of Highly Sensitive People (HSPs), forge a better understanding between HSPs and non-HSPs -- whether they be children, parents, spouses, or co-workers. The goal is to inspire dialogue among professionals and further research on the innate trait of high sensitivity.

In order to help you better understand the nature of Highly Sensitive People (HSPs), following are 15 things that most HSPs do . . .

1) They take things personally.

Highly sensitive people tend to understand others better and they are also very helpful. According to research, sensitivity can be perceived as an asset or a negative trait, depending on the culture. For example, in Thailand and India, highly sensitive people are almost never teased. In North America things are completely different.

2) They tend to avoid team sports.

Highly sensitive people prefer exercising on their own, because they don't want to feel like everyone is watching their every move. Most highly sensitive people tend to occupy with individual sports, like bicycling, running and hiking. Nevertheless, we need to understand that this is not what always happens. There are many highly sensitive people who like to participate in team sports. That may be related to how their family supported them when they were kids. So if you happen to have a highly sensitive person on your team, just continue reading on to find out more about them.

3) Their emotions are really deep

In fact, highly sensitive people can feel in a deeper way than the ones who are less sensitive. They tend to process things really deeply. They’re very intuitive, and go very deep inside to try to figure things out. [Reference: Ted Zeff, Ph.D., is the author of The Highly Sensitive Person’s Survival Guide and other books on highly sensitive people].

4) They tend to react more in tough situations.

Highly sensitive people are also more reactive. They act with empathy when they listen to a friend’s problem, for example. In addition, they seem to care more about others’ reactions in the cases where something bad happens.

5) They are not too spontaneous.

On the contrary, highly sensitive people have a hard time making decisions, since they want to check every singly detail. This may sound a little anxious, but in fact careful decisions can save them from a lot of trouble. As Aron writes in a recent issue of her Comfort Zone newsletter, highly sensitive people can find it easier to make a decision by following some steps: “Take as long to decide as the situation permits, and ask for more time if you need it and can take it. During this time, try pretending for a minute, hour, day, or even week that you have made up your mind a certain way. How does that feel? Often, on the other side of a decision things look different, and this gives you a chance to imagine more vividly that you are already there.”

6) HSPs hate it when they make a bad decision.

Highly sensitive people get really annoyed with themselves when they realize that their decision was “wrong” or “bad”, according to their criteria. As Aron explains, the reason why highly sensitive ones can’t stand making a mistake is because “the emotional reactivity is higher”.

7) They are very observant.

In fact, highly sensitive people tend to notice every single detail in a room by the moment they walk into it!

8) People think they are introverted… But not all of them are!

As Aron states, only 30 percent of highly sensitive people are extroverts. What is essential about them is that most of the times these sensitive but extrovert people have grown up in a close-knit community and had the chance to interact with many people.

9) They can cooperate really well.

As we previously said, highly sensitive people are really careful and watch every detail. That’s why they are also perfect workers. They make good decisions, can take great responsibilities and they are really thoughtful. For example, if a highly sensitive person worked in a medical team, they would be great in counting the positive and negative reasons why a patient should or shouldn’t have a surgery.

10) Unfortunately, many of HSPs suffer from anxiety or even depression.

But that’s true only for those who’ve experienced something bad. According to Aron, “If you’ve had a fair number of bad experiences, especially early in life, so you don’t feel safe in the world or you don’t feel secure at home or … at school. Your nervous system is set to ‘anxious”. Being surrounded by supportive family members and friends, can really help a highly sensitive person face his or her anxieties and fears. “You can’t over-protect them, but you can’t under-protect them, either. You have to titrate that just right when they’re young so they can feel confident and they can do fine”, Aron explains.

11) They get annoyed more easily.

… especially if it is an annoying sound. Well, everyone hates annoying noises more or less, but highly sensitive people are even more “fragile”, when it comes to this. As Aron explains, that happens because they tend to be more easily overwhelmed and overstimulated by too much activity.

12) They hate violent or horror movies.

We all remember that friend who's always whining: "Please, let's watch another movie! I won't be able to sleep at night!" Empathy and overstimulation can explain this situation too. You may call them fearful but they've got stronger emotions than you have.

13) They cry more often.

Highly sensitive people rarely put themselves in situations where they will be made to feel embarrassed for crying easily. What their friends and family need to understand is that crying easily is not a sign of weakness but a form of expression. In order words, highly sensitive people let it all out. Crying can really make you stronger, because you get rid of all that made you feel bad.

14) They are very kind.

Highly sensitive people are also highly conscientious people, Aron states. That’s why they will probably be considerate and exhibit good manners. They also tend to notice when someone else isn’t being conscientious – and they disapprove it.

15) Criticism can affect them a lot.

Highly sensitive people have reactions to criticism that are more intense than less sensitive people. That is why they may employ certain tactics to avoid said criticism, including people-pleasing, criticizing themselves first, and avoiding the source of the criticism altogether, according to Aron.

Get ready to Journal . . .

Are you a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)?

Answer the following questions...

Is this you?

Are you easily overwhelmed by such things as bright lights, strong smells, coarse fabrics, or sirens nearby?
Do you get rattled when you have a lot to do in a short amount of time?
Do you make a point of avoiding violent movies and TV shows?
Do you need to withdraw during busy days, into bed or a darkened room or some other place where you can have privacy and relief from the situation?
Do you make it a high priority to arrange your life to avoid upsetting or overwhelming situations?
Do you notice or enjoy delicate or fine scents, tastes, sounds, or works of art?
Do you have a rich and complex inner life?
When you were a child, did your parents or teachers see you as sensitive or shy?
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REFERENCE: Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D. ~ The Highly Sensitive Person BLOG

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